According to Wikipedia, introversion is the state of being predominantly interested in one’s own mental self. Identify first and then acknowledge and love them the way they are because they are great! We have put together four very important things that you absolutely need to know if you are dating an introvert person. Follow us –
1.) Large Crowds are Overwhelming
While you may enjoy a house party full of people, it’s not the same for an introvert. They can be overwhelmed by large crowds. They don’t really enjoy spending longer periods of time in crowded places.
While they may endure it for a concert, parade, or special event, we don’t look forward to being around masses of people. After a while, it can be really overwhelming and although they may not cover their ears, scream and freak out in large crowds, they secretly wish they could.
2.) An introverted partner opens up at their own pace
With someone who is introverted, it is not easy to fathom what is going on below the surface. They are easily misunderstood as their way of expression is not quite like other people. They are unconventional and that is the key factor to be accounted in. Introverts find it difficult to be forthcoming about their feelings and thoughts. But mind you, that doesn’t make him any less of a considerate, kind and emotional person. On the contrary, their feelings run deeper than you think.
3.) They’ll consciously do “Extroverted” things with you
Despite wanting you to be around for lazy Sundays in bed, they also want to take you to the movies and out to dinner and to their parents’ for Thanksgiving. All the little milestones that never mattered before all of a sudden seem not only seem important, but desirable.
Isn’t that sweet?
4.) Small talk is not the strongest suit
Deeper conversations are where they shine. “The general small talk chit-chat grates on my nerves ― I don’t like it and feel awkward trying to engage in it. However, discussions on more meaningful topics truly catch my interest and I can ramble on and on or listen at length with keen interest.” ― Julie Lombard
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